Mr. Ralph J. Polito

UTICA – Mr. Ralph J. Polito, age 83, passed away on Monday, March 31, 2025. At the time of his passing, his loving family was by his side. Born in Utica on September 24, 1941, Ralph was the son of the late Joseph and Margaret V. (LaBella) Polito. A graduate of T.R. Proctor High School/Class of 1959, he went on to earn both his Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Education from Utica College. On April 27, 1963, Ralph married the former Elaine Cristalli. Through the years, Ralph and Elaine’s journey together was marked by devotion, humor, and enduring bond that even time and distance could not sever. As partners and parents, they shared a love that shaped their family in countless ways, offering warmth, wisdom, and an unshakable sense of humor that carried them through life’s highs and lows. A dedicated educator throughout his career, Ralph began teaching at Brandegee Elementary School in Utica, later moving on to the Frankfort-Schuyler Central School District and eventually settling into a position at Perry Junior High in the New Hartford School District. From 1968 to 1974, he also enjoyed coaching basketball at both T.R. Proctor and Frankfort High Schools. Later, he became a familiar presence on the court—not as a coach, but as an official and referee. His warm and friendly demeanor brought joy to his students and athletes alike. He cherished every moment of his teaching and coaching careers. During the summers, he stayed active by managing the Addison-Miller Pool. In his spare time, Ralph enjoyed fishing and hunting—both up north and down south—and created many fond memories during his annual trips to Canada. He also enjoyed an occasional round of golf. At one time, he was a parishioner of Blessed Sacrament Church. Ralph is survived by his wife, Elaine; and daughter, Mary M. Polito. He treasured the memory of his son, Joseph M. “Joe” Polito, who recently preceded him on February 20, 2025. He is further survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Frederic and Carol Polito; nieces and nephews, Frederic Polito and Jim Recknall, Christopher and Debra Polito; and Michael and Kristyn Cristalli; sister-in-law, Barbara Cristalli (the late Michael J. Cristalli); and many special friends. He was additionally predeceased by his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Michael A. and Mary T. (Vedete) Cristalli. The Polito family extends their sincere gratitude to the nurses and staff of the Saranac Household at the Masonic Care Community of NY for their care and compassion. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend his Memorial Mass of Christian Burial and Celebration of Life which will commence on Saturday, June 14, 2025, at 1:00 p.m. at Historic Old St. John’s Church, 240 Bleecker St. There will be an opportunity to greet the family at the conclusion of the Mass. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave.

Mr. Ralph J. Polito

September 24, 1941 - March 31, 2025