Mr. Paul A. Deubler

Mr. Paul A. Deubler, age 63, passed away on Tuesday, January 7, 2014, in the comfort of his home with his loving family by his side. Born in Sayre, Pennsylvania on February 28, 1950, Paul was the son of the late Harold and Carol (Allen) Deubler. He was raised and educated in Sayre and attended Penn State University. Paul was blessed in his 20-year relationship with his soul mate, the former Carol McInerney-Kocienda; they were a unique couple who successfully blended their children into one family. Paul was employed by the New York State Department of Transportation for 20 years, retiring as a Highway Supervisor; he was proud of this position and of his accomplishments on the job. A natural navigator, adventurer, and tranquil touring companion, Paul’s retirement was an opportunity to travel along the East Coast. Paul enjoyed a unique and wonderful life on many different levels. He was a gourmet cook who enjoyed the fruits of his labor in the kitchen. He tried his hand at games of chance on the Casino circuit where machines were his passion. He always spoke in hand gestures combined with his wonderful sense of humor, and was successful on making his wife laugh at least once a day! He was emotive and energetic in his storytelling, never missing a detail. With his smooth-talking ‘silver tongue’, he mastered the art of conversation, always mindful to be respectful and treat all people with dignity. Although his life may have been short in years, Paul’s days were etched in love, respect, and honor. He was most proud of his children and praised their accomplishments; and he embraced the lives of his grandchildren. Each one of his children experienced him at a different time of his life, but his greatest joy was to know them in his later years. With understanding and sensitivity for his grandson Mattison’s autism, Paul joined forces with his daughter and made Autism Awareness a priority. In his earlier years, Paul preferred the peace and plenty of the outdoors while fishing, hunting, and camping, and he imparted many memories of those days to his children when they spent time together. There were sunny summers at Sylvan Beach with family. As a grandpa, he always kept a watchful eye and reinforced how proud he was of them. He even came to know the joy of being a great- grandfather through his granddaughter Renee. He also encouraged his loved ones to participate in sports and supported them by attending their games. He was a fan of baseball’s New York Yankees and football’s Oakland Raiders. Paul was of the Episcopalian faith which was particularly strong during his final days. Paul is survived by his wife, Carol; his children, Frederick W. and Robin Deubler, Robert J. Deubler, Tara F. Deubler, Laura and Frank Sepulveres, Robin Roberts and Jeff Merilahti, and Daniel Kocienda; his grandchildren, Renee, and Kaitlin Deubler; Ethan Jayne, and Sophia Deubler; twins Paul, and Joseph Sepulveres; Chelsea, and Mattison Roberts; Julia, Emma, Jenna, and Evan Kocienda; and his beloved great-grandchild, Lilly Deubler. Also left to mourn his passing are his brother and sister-in-law, Ken and Gretchen Deubler; many nieces and nephews including Chuck and Beth, Carol and Mark, Greg and Lisa, and their families; cousins, in-laws Fred Daniels, Jack and Madeline McInerney, Tom McInerney, Patrick and Patricia McInerney, and their families; and his longtime and best friend, Bubba Moore. He was predeceased by his sister, Joan Daniels; his nephew, Stephen Daniels; and his son-in-law, Kim Roberts. The family is grateful to the staff of Hospice & Palliative Care, Inc., especially Georgia, so encouraging and motivating; Crystal, gently straight-forward and caring; as well as all the others who made Paul’s life more comfortable. Thanks also to Rev. Jill for spiritually and personally tending to Paul with inspiration. Carol was comforted by her co-workers at the Masonic Care Community through their support and generosity during this most difficult time. Visitation will be held Friday from 4:00-7:00 at the Eannace Funeral Home, 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave. Paul's funeral service and Celebration of Life will commence on Saturday morning at 10:00 at the funeral home with Rev. Jill Farnham-Us officiating the ceremony.

Mr. Paul A. Deubler

February 28, 1950 - January 7, 2014