Bryan Alfredo Bello

UTICA - Mr. Bryan Alfredo Bello, age 22, passed away unexpectedly in the comfort of his home on Wednesday, December 5, 2018. Born in Manhattan, NY on September 24, 1996, Bryan was the first of three children of Carlos and Ylonka (Castro) Bello. He attended Martin Luther King and General Herkimer Elementary Schools, and was a graduate of T.R. Proctor High School/Class of 2016. Bryan began working with his dad at Don’s Ford in the Maintenance Department, but his love was mechanics. His dream job was to be an underwater welder. Bryan was always one to work hard. He was intelligent and applied himself to anything he attempted, and he did it well, and with humility. He was a respectful soul and thought of others with sincerity and sensitivity. He was a good, responsible son and a thoughtful big brother who taught his younger brothers the tricks of operating a BMX Bike and how to drive a standard transmission car. One of his greatest sources of pride and joy was his red 1997 standard Subaru Legacy that he and his dad modified, and he just loved it! He also loved his BMX Bike which he often rode and could make it perform at the skate park on the west side and compete with other riders. He was a quick learner and could read people accurately and find their positive points. He befriended them and brought them to a good place. He wanted everyone to have a good friend. Bryan spent special times with his dad, and from the age of 7, they went fishing at the canal at Sylvan Beach, and he always caught the biggest fish. As a family, they had fun camping and hiking, especially at Delta Lake. His dad taught him how to hunt, year round, and he excelled in this sport, exceeding his dad’s expectations. When he returned from hunting they would follow the ritual of cleaning the gun to perfection. He could also skin and clean a deer using the latest techniques. He was talented at using a turkey call and had perfect aim at taking them down. Bryan was an uplifting force and he kept physically fit by working out. Bryan loved to eat! A gallon of milk and donuts, every morning, pumpkin pie, honey buns, Wendy’s; it was all good. He loved sea food and his fresh cooked crab, and a trip to the China Buffet made his day! He was so athletic and always on the move tubing, 4-wheeling, kayaking, and biking. His parents taught him to buy only what you can afford, eat what you can afford to eat, and never live beyond your means. Bryan will be remembered for his humility, selflessness and concern for others. He had many friends and was very open-hearted. He looked into your soul, …but did not judge. People gravitated to him. And there was nothing he wouldn’t have done for his family and friends. Bryan is survived by his mother, Ylonka, and his father, Carlos who he nick-named “Miss Mam and “Mr. Dad”; his brothers, Stephen Bello, and Michael Bello; maternal grandparents, Fernando Alfredo and Miladys Castro; paternal grandparents, Carlos Bello and Rosa Emilia Espinal; aunts, Vanessa Castro, and Elaina Bello; and cousins, Gabriella Mateo, Jacob Mateo, Giovanni Mateo; Emely Bello, and Angel Cerda. Bryan was a genuine “shoulder to lean on” for many friends throughout his life. We hope they will remember this incredible young man who blessed us all in so many ways. To many of his close friends, he was known as XSK, …they were a tight little group who watched out for each other. At the time of Bryan’s unfortunate passing, Carlos’ sister Elaina Bello was of great support. The family is also grateful to the Utica Police Department and Rescue 1, for their timely response, and to Christine from the ME’s office who gave such love and comfort to the parents at this most difficult time. The family honored and commemorated Bryan’s life at a private time.

Bryan Alfredo Bello

September 24, 1996 - December 5, 2018