Barbara A. (Dombroski) Abiusi Marose

NEW HARTFORD - Barbara A. (Dombroski) Abiusi Marose, age 77, passed away on Tuesday, October 22, 2019 at MVHS at St. Luke’s Healthcare with her loving son Scott by her side. Although afflicted with cancer, her passing was unexpected. Born in Utica on December 26, 1941, Barbara was the daughter of the late Steven and Mary (Giglio) Dombroski. She was a graduate of T.R. Proctor High School/Class of 1959. At one time, she was married to James P. Abiusi and to that relationship came the blessing of their son; as parents they were larger than life. Barbara began her working career at Dime Bank and remained in the banking industry with Fleet Bank. She was later employed by AFSA Data Corporation, most recently known as ACS, as a Supervisor in the Borrower Services Department. She was an empathetic woman who equitably oversaw many employees, and they, in turn, respected her competence and fairness. She positively affected many people’s lives, and she retired after a rewarding career. Barbara was absolutely beautiful, classic in style and presentation, which was also a reflection of her spirit and soul. She was family-oriented and the blessings of her loved ones meant so much to her. She was hilariously humorous, charming, honest, and compassionate. Her non-judgmental nature led her to live by the words, “Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future”. As a mother, she stood by her son and taught him to be accepting of others. She helped him become independent, and the greatest gift she gave him was to have him by her side, caring for her during her illness. Although stunned when she first became ill, she was very open about how she would aggressively and progressively “Fight the Fight”. She was a warrior in battle, steadfast and valiant. She cared for the well-being of her home, and she had her own way of doing things, …the right way! She prepared and presented Italian food perfectly. She always found time to shop, since it was a passionate pastime for her. When raising her son as a single mom, she saw his passion for reading and even when it was financially difficult, she always found a way to acquire that book he was anxious to read. Later in life she took up her son’s interest of reading, but a bit different style of book; she fell in love with the author John Grisham, was entertained by Hallmark Channel movies, and enthusiastically followed the Yankees. She was an animal advocate and whisperer, one who sought shelter and safety for many pets. Throughout her life, Barbara’s spirituality uplifted her soul. Barbara is survived by her son, Scott J. Abiusi; two women who were special to her, Melissa Masullo of Long Island, and Nur Hanna Maria Rafi of Singapore; and her cousins, especially Cynthia Calogero, Victoria Hillebrand, Andrea LoParco, Cathy Giruzzi, Angela and Robert DelBuono, and cousins of the next generation. The family extends their gratitude to Dr. Tatyana Antonevich, Dr. Alicia Detraglia, and Dr. Scott Brehaut for their compassionate care; and the staff of the Faxton Regional Cancer Center who were incredibly dedicated, uplifting, and supportive in treating Barbara during her illness. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Barbara’s funeral service which will commence on Thursday afternoon at 1:00 at the Church of Our Lady of Lourdes where her Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be offered. The family will receive visitors at the conclusion of the service.

Barbara A. (Dombroski) Abiusi Marose

December 26, 1941 - October 22, 2019