Mr. Serafino "Sam" DeBernardis Jr. Obituary - Visitation & Funeral Information

UTICA/SYRACUSE – Mr. Serafino “Sam” DeBernardis, Jr., age 81, had closure come to his good life on Thursday, May 12, 2022, with the love of his family in his heart and by his side. He was born in Utica on January 1, 1941, the son of the late Serafino, Sr., and Lucia (DeRisio) DeBernardis. Sam attended local schools and, notably, T.R. Proctor High School. On July 12, 1969, Sam married the love of his life, Rosemary Fellone. The couple were best friends, with the key to their relationship being making each other laugh every single day! As the years matured, the pair diligently watched over each other, worrying about and caring for the other for nearly 53 years. Sam was grateful to spend most of his career working for his one employer: Oneida County. He worked for 30 years in the Maintenance Department. A funny, light-hearted, and comical man, Sam could lift anyone’s spirits. He was a master of one-liners who artfully delivered his comments and jokes. Moreover, he was a great dad, which, with the passing of the years, made him an even better “Poppy”—the best! His time with his granddaughters was precious to him, and he would save the best of himself for them. He made such a positive influence on their lives as he was so supportive. When all else failed, Sam believed humor and laughter could fix everything. Known for being a prankster throughout his life, his siblings and in-laws eagerly awaited his arrival at events so that the memory making could begin! When he wasn’t lightening people’s days with humor, Sam enjoyed fishing and hunting, which were sports he shared with his nephews and his son-in-law Michael. He even taught his granddaughters the art and virtues needed when he took them fishing. An avid sports fan, Sam’s football team was the 49ers. He was a huge Joe Montana fan. Rooting for them was a family event. To this day, memorabilia of the team and of Montana adorn Sam’s home. Sam was additionally a great cook. He could whip up anything from a short-order meal to Sunday sauce. He was creative in his cooking and would never measure any of the ingredients. Yet the tempting smells of his cuisine wafted from the kitchen, and tasting was done with his fresh Italian bread. Both of his children carry on his tradition making Sunday dinners with his famous sauce recipe. The family was so important—a top priority—to Sam, which was reflected in his constant hosting of all types of get togethers, pool parties, dinners, and holiday celebrations, which were sacred. Though all of the exterior may indicate otherwise, he was truly sentimental and humble—a man loved by many for his outgoing personality. Sam’s health problems and close calls made it clear that he was a fighter who would persevere to allow his family more time, which both he and they truly desired. He fought the good fight for as long as he could. Sam is survived by his devoted wife, Ro; his son Serafino “Sam” DeBernardis; and his daughter and son-in-law, Denise and Michael DiGirolomo. Sam will live on in the hearts of his prized possessions, his granddaughters: Marissa Rose, Mia Lise, and Ava Lucia. He leaves behind his sisters, Lucy LeoGrande and her late husband Joseph, Elvira Williams and her late husband Clarence, and Rita Davis and her late husband James. Sam was predeceased by his sisters and brothers-in-law, Marie and John Carbone, Jr., Theresa and Albert Russo, Frances and Lucien Cicigline, Carmella Noti-Perkins and husband Herb Perkins, Jr., Linda Lowery; as well as by his brothers and sister-in-law, John DeBernardis, and Anthony and Amelia “Millie” DeBernardis. Sam will be fondly remembered by his many nieces and nephews, especially Franny LeoGrande, who shared such a close bond and admiration for each other; his great-nieces and great-nephews, and his cousins. Additionally, Sam was a great friend to many who will carry his legacy in their hearts. He was predeceased by his father-in-law and mother-in-law, John and Rose (Massago) Fellone, and by his brother-in-law, Angelo Fellone. The family would like to extend their thanks to the staff at Bishop Rehabilitation and Nursing Center. Sam was blessed with a Respiratory Therapist, Jim Waters, who genuinely cared for his wellbeing and who came to his rescue whenever needed. A Memorial Gathering will be held on Friday, May 20, 2022, from 4-6 p.m. at the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave. Sam’s Memorial Service and Celebration of Life will commence at the conclusion of Visitation.

Mr. Serafino "Sam" DeBernardis Jr.

January 1, 1941 - May 12, 2022