Mr. Vincent R. "Vin" Palmiero, Jr.

WHITESBORO – Vincent “Vin” Palmiero, Jr., age 83, passed away on Saturday, November 19, 2022, with those he loved most in his heart. Born in Utica on March 24, 1939, Vincent was the son of the late Vincent and Vincenza (Treta) Palmiero. He graduated from T.R. Proctor High School in 1957, along with his sweetheart Gloria who later became his wife. He continued his education at St. Bonaventure University where he graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Business Administration, the foundation of studies that set the groundwork for his business endeavors. On July 1, 1961, Vin was joined in marriage to his betrothed, Gloria Perritano. Ironically fulfilling a “mushade” made jokingly by their fathers when they were children. Their commitment was paramount ~ they took pleasure each other’s company and common interests and enhanced each other’s hearts for 61 years. Theirs was a united front on many levels, working together in their business ventures, their home, and to lovingly restore their cottage on the St. Lawrence River…but family always prevailed. Vincent began his professional career at the Air Force Research Laboratory (AFRL) at Griffiss Air Force Base, as a Contract Administrator and Negotiator. He rose through several promotions to the role of Director of Contracts. Vin was admired by his colleagues and employees who trusted his expertise and wise advice. He was a strong mentor to his employees and set many on their own path of career growth. Vin never really retired; he was sought out by Dolphin Technology/ITT for his expertise and was very proud that they won every proposal that he worked on. Vin was an entrepreneur! Always seeking to provide for his family, he operated a pizza truck for many years at the New York State Fair with his brother Bob. He also opened a pizzeria in North Utica, The Roman Platter, along with partner Larry D’Angelo. His personal attributes, like his professional ones, were impeccable. As a patriarch, Vin was a kind, loving, and gentle man. A young man himself, he provided guidance and counsel to his mother and much younger brother and sister after his father’s early death. He was a pillar of strength for his children and grandchildren who always knew they could turn to Grandpa He was also light-hearted, witty, and a sparkling storyteller to the last detail. It was not unusual to see him entertaining family and friends for an entire evening, and those were the greatest of times. Many of those stories included escapades with his best friend and partner-in-crime Pete Saraceno. As a dad, he was so caring, encouraging, and calm. He imparted wisdom and patience to his children who valued his virtues and embrace them to this very day. He treasured time spent in Chippewa Bay, his little piece of heaven, the weekend gathering place where memories of the wonderful times together are so precious. He taught each of his grandchildren to fish. Vin held sacred his membership in Tau Phi Zeta Fraternity, composed of a group of good guys who celebrated all the holidays and attended Sunday morning private meetings. He was a golfer and a member of the Valley View Golf Course where he faced the fairways in the good company of his friends. Having his family around him was Vin’s greatest joy and treasure. Vincent is survived by his beloved wife, Gloria; his son and daughter-in-law, Vincent “Vince” and Linda Palmiero; his daughter, Laurie Palmiero; grandchildren, Jessica Palmiero, and Matthew Palmiero; Sydney Wilde, and Allison Wilde; brother and sister-in-law, Robert and Lynda Palmiero; and sister, Marianne DePaul and her late husband Angelo. He shared much love with his nieces and nephews, Lisa Pappas, Ian Palmiero, Melissa Laviola, and Kristen DePaul and their families, as well as many cousins. The family would like to give special thanks to dear friends and family who continually gave support and love during the last months of his illness. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Vincent’s Memorial Mass of Christian Burial and Celebration of Life which will commence on Saturday, December 3, 2022, at 11:00 at St. Mary of Mount Carmel/Blessed Sacrament Parish, 648 Jay Street, Utica. There will be an opportunity to greet the family at the conclusion of the Mass. In lieu of floral offerings, memorial contributions may be directed to Eckankar NY Satsang Society, 206 East Seneca Street, Manlius, NY 13104 or make a donation for their own favorite charity. Envelopes will be available at the service. For those unable to attend, Vincent's services may be viewed online at https://youtu.be/fEOZZZ1bhnU Inurnment will take place in Calvary Cemetery at the convenience of the family.

Mr. Vincent R. "Vin" Palmiero, Jr.

March 24, 1939 - November 19, 2022