Mrs. Vernita (Porter) Patterson

UTICA – It is with heavy hearts that we gather to celebrate and remember the life of Vernita Patterson, a cherished soul who touched the lives of many. Vernita was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, godmother and friend. Born on October 28, 1955, in Palm City, FL and later made Utica, NY her home, where she touched the lives of many with her sweet, loving, and caring nature. Vernita graced this world with her presence for 69 years before peacefully passing on April 18, 2025, in Syracuse, New York with all of her family and loved ones by her side. A woman of faith, Vernita's life was a testament to her faith and love for her family and friends. Vernita found strength and guidance in her Christian beliefs, which she shared generously with those around her. Her greatest achievements were the countless ways she uplifted others and the love she poured into her family and friends. To know Vernita was to know her loving nature and caring demeanor that touched everyone she encountered. Whether it was through her beautiful smile with her gold tooth that we all knew her by, or her passion for children and helping others. Vernita worked for General Electric (G.E.), Masonic Home, Thea Bowman, and Utica City School District. Vernita also was a Foster Care mother for many years and provided Daycare for those around her. Vernita also enjoyed her BINGO days with her best friend Nece Parrish. Vernita's presence brought warmth and joy to those around her. Her life's achievements are numerous, but it was the simple, heartfelt connections and caring for children that stands out most. Vernita had an innate ability to make everyone feel seen and valued, a rare gift that left an indelible mark on her family and friends. Vernita was always there making a difference in her own sweet, loving, caring, and kind way. Her involvement in the lives around her was a testament to her belief in the power of kindness and connection. Above all, Vernita cherished her family. She is survived by her devoted husband, Jesse Patterson; mother, Marva Adams Utica, NY; and sister, Lavern Porter of Richmond, VA. Her loving children, Veronica Patterson, Jessica Patterson of Utica, NY, and Jesse (Moet) Patterson Jr. of Georgia, Rakeisha Elliott and Aliya (Jonathan) Elliott of Albany, NY. Gregory Patterson, John Patterson, Mary Patterson, and Honesty Watkins of Utica, NY, will carry forward her legacy of love and compassion. A very special Uncle Mr. James A. Porter of Clewiston, FL. Cousins who were more like sisters: Becky Hernandez, Rose Shealey, Sandra Linen, and Joanne Hunter. Best friends, Denise Jefferson, Sheila Morrison, Earlene House, Angie Smith, Janet Blair, and Debbie Liggions. Vernita also leaves behind 26 grandchildren, 17 great-grandchildren, two goddaughters; and a host of nephews, cousins, and many friendships throughout her life that was important to her, and all the love she surrounded them with. Vernita's presence in everyone's lives was a guiding light, and her memory will forever be a source of comfort and inspiration. Vernita is predeceased by her grandmother, Mary Witchard; mother-in-law, Magalene Patterson, her sons Edward (Guess) Patterson, and Vernon Patterson; sister-in-law, Dorthy Ann Wright; brother-in-law, Leroy Patterson, her great-grandmother, Dorthy Jones; her aunt, Joyce Adams and Carylon Gadsen. Her uncle, Ivory Adams. Cousins, Odie Shealey, Mary Linen, Katrina Adams, Betsy Linen, John (June) Linen Sr, and James Adams Sr.; and best friend, Louise Blackshear. Visitation will be held on Friday, May 2, 2025, from 11:00 a.m.-1:00 p.m. at Peter Spencer UAME Church, 841 Bleecker St. Vernita's Home Going Service and Celebration of Life will commence at 1:00 p.m. at the church. Interment will take place in Forest Hill Cemetery. Together, let us celebrate the incredible woman she was and find solace in the promise that goodness and mercy shall follow her all the days of her life; a time to honor Vernita's remarkable journey and the light she brought into the world, as she now dwells in the house of the Lord forever. Though we mourn her passing, we are grateful for the time we shared and the love that will forever remain in our hearts. In the days ahead, may we find solace in Vernita's enduring love and the beautiful moments we shared. Her spirit will continue to guide and inspire us, reminding us of the profound impact one life can have. This tribute to Vernita’s life was lovingly written by her family.

Mrs. Vernita (Porter) Patterson

October 28, 1955 - April 18, 2025