Mrs. Sadie (Abounader) Bolos

Mrs. Sadie (Abounader) Bolos, age 82, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, May 30, 2016 at the St. Elizabeth Medical Center with her loving family by her side. Sadie was born in Dekwaneh, Lebanon on November 28, 1933, the daughter of the late Elias Tohme and Vergenie (Al Hamouche) Abou Nader. At the age of 17, in Lebanon, she entered into an old-fashioned marriage with Anthony “Tony” Bolos. It was a union arranged by the two families with a shared concern for their children’s future. Soon after their wedding, she immigrated to the United States to join Tony and settled in Utica. As husband and wife, they shared a strong and indelible bond. Sadie was selfless and loyal to Tony and honored him in so many ways, even to her very last day. Their successful journey of marriage celebrated 62 years. At one time, Sadie was employed by the Chicago Market on Kellogg Road in the Bakery department; everyone would ask for her because she was the one who always had a smile on her face. Most of her life, she was a homemaker, a job she embraced with joy. Sadie loved America and appreciated its opportunities. As an immigrant, she embraced the American way during her first year in this country. She became fluent in the English language and she learned how to drive a car. She became a naturalized citizen in 1957 which was an honor and highlight in her life. Sadie was a woman ahead of her time in so many ways. She was also a proud woman, well appointed in appearance and attire and beautiful, inside and out. Her softness, generosity, and genuine love were among her greatest attributes. It was only natural that her children grew in her good graces to be as loving and patient as her. Sadie was a peacemaker and her children respected her and honored her by staying together in harmony and regard for one another. Her greatest blessings in life were her kind-hearted children who made her so proud, her grandchildren who revitalized her life, and her great-grandchildren who were little points of light that brightened her house and warmed her heart. All were welcome at Sadie’s home to share in her savory Lebanese spreads which were second to none for authenticity and taste. The children often admired her ability to cook up all her ethnic foods from scratch. She pushed herself to please everyone, and no one was ever disappointed. In a pinch, she was always able to take something from the “Magic Freezer”! For Sadie, having her family by her side at her table and the love of her children and her grandchildren who affectionately called her “Situ”, meant the world to her. She often quoted the phrase “there is nothing like family”. Sadie was of the Maronite faith and praised God as a parishioner of St. Louis Gonzaga Church. From the age of four, she sang for the Lord in church and she was always on pitch. As an adult, she was devoted to the choir and she gave it her all. Her husband often remarked that she sang like a bird. A prayer warrior, a candle was lit at all times for the intentions of her loved ones. Her heart emulated Christ because of her softness, kindness, patience, and love. She became a proud member of the Tabouli Club, a social group, and throughout the years she was active in many of the parish’s religious organizations. She graciously entertained parish clergy and fellow communicants at her home. Sadie is survived by her husband Tony; her children and their loves, John and Renee Bolos of Columbia, SC, Missionary David and Debbie Bolos of Arequipa, Peru and Yorkville, Mark and Tina Bolos of Clinton, Peter and Sandra Bolos of Remsen, and her only daughter, Theresa Bolos of New Hartford. Situ was always proud of her 23 grandchildren and their families, John Jr., Michael, Joanne, Laura, and Samuel; Chelene, Jessica, Andrea, Anthony, Nathaniel, Josiah, and Timothy; Katrina; Mark, Christopher, and Rhiannon, and their mother Wendy Bolos; Rachel, Heather, Jazmin, Zechariah, and Elizabeth; and Peter Jr., and Amanda; and her adored 19 great-grandchildren. She will also be remembered by her sister, Takla Abou Nader Bou Chaaya of CA; her many nieces and nephews who she opened her home to as they made their way to America; her great-nieces, great-nephews, and cousins. She was blessed with many wonderful friendships throughout her life, too many to singularly mention. She was predeceased by her siblings, Selim Abou Nader, Mitri Abou Nader, Tohme Abou Nader, Martha Abou Nader Hajj; in-laws Toufek and Ardell Bolos; Mary Ann Bolos; Thomas and Anna Abounader; and John and Susan Hagan; as well as several nieces and nephews. The family would like to thank Joyce Showalter, Sadie’s niece, who loved her aunt as a second mother and interacted with her daily; the family is also grateful to the staff of the St. Elizabeth Medical Center and the personnel of the Yorkville EMT’s for their compassionate care. Visitation will be held Thursday from 4:00-7:00 at St. Louis Gonzaga Church, 520 Rutger St. Those wishing to express an act of kindness in Sadie’s honor may make a donation to the New Hope Children’s Home in Arequipa, Peru, an orphanage that was established 20 years ago by Sadie’s son David and her daughter-in-law Debbie; envelopes will be available at the service or be directed to New Hope Children’s Home, P.O. Box 107 Yorkville, NY 13495. Sadie’s funeral service and Celebration of Life will commence on Friday morning at 10:30 at St. Louis Gonzaga Church where the Divine Liturgy of the Faithful Departed will be celebrated by Rev. Alaa Issa and concelebrants Deacon Paul Salamy and Deacon Peter Hobaica. Entombment will take place in Resurrection Chapel Mausoleum at Holy Trinity Cemetery at the convenience of the family. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave.

Mrs. Sadie (Abounader) Bolos

November 28, 1933 - May 30, 2016