Raymond D. Nelson

Mr. Raymond D. Nelson, age 70, of Utica, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, March 27, 2010 at the St. Luke's Home with the love and support of his family. Born in Augusta, NY on January 10, 1940, Raymond was the son of the late Norman and Helen (Bills) Nelson. He was raised and educated in Richfield Springs. On September 23, 1961 he married the former Patricia E. Murphy with whom he shared 48 years; they loved each other and to this relationship came the blessing of their daughter. Ray began his work career with the Joseph Valeriano Paving Company, held the position of supervisor with Murphy Paving, and later, established and operated the R & N Construction Company for many years. Lastly, he worked for the Observer-Dispatch as a route man. He was a hardworking man who put his heart and soul in his duties and responsibilities on the job. Ray was a good father who catered to the needs of his daughter; he was always there for his Renee and they shared a great admiration for each other. He was also a “gramp” who cherished his beloved grandchildren. A likeable man who was acquainted with and appreciated by many, he was a joker by character and jolly by nature, and had a knack of teasing in a jovial way. Family reunions and get-togethers were made enjoyable through the gathering of the “Nelson Clan”. He pursued the sports of hunting, fishing, bowling, golfing, and he liked the excitement of horseracing. Ray is survived by his wife, Patty; his daughter, Renee A. Nelson of Utica; and the “sunshine of his life”, his grandchildren, Danielle C. Nelson, and Duamel R. DeTraglia. Survivors also include his sister and brother-in-law, Norma and George Picente of Utica; his brothers and sisters-in-law, William “Bill” and Gert Dinger of Ilion, and Nellis and Janice Nelson of Utica; his nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, cousins, and in-laws, Evelyn Nelson, Georgia Nelson, Rose Nelson, and Jacqueline Cooper. He also shared a special friendship with Sam Ameduri. He was predeceased by his brothers, Robert L. Nelson, Sr., Wesley O. “Wes” Nelson, Ronald F. Nelson, Sr.; and his sister-in-law, Margaret A. “Peggy” and Daniel Guarno. The family extends a special thank-you to the staff of the St. Luke’s Home, the Visiting Nurse Association, especially Mary Jo; and Jane Kulczycki, a family friend who shared much love and kindness with both Ray and Patty. Visitation will be held Tuesday from 4:00-6:00 at the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave. By family request, please omit floral offerings. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Raymond's Mass of Christian Burial and Celebration of Life which will commence on Wednesday morning at 10:30 at St. Anthony and St. Agnes Church.

Raymond D. Nelson

January 10, 1940 - March 27, 2010