Mr. Philip J. DeAngelo Sr.

Mr. Philip J. DeAngelo, Sr., age 67, courageously crossed over on Saturday, October 3, 2015 at the Abraham House with the love and support of his family. Born in Utica on August 18, 1948, Philip was the son of the late George and Rita (Chappel) DeAngelo. He was raised and educated in local schools. On July 14, 1968 he wed the former Terumi H. Robinson with whom he shared 47 years in a union of love and understanding; courage and strength were the values that blessed their marriage. Philip was a Field Service Engineer for Siemens Medical Systems for nearly 30 years. In servicing medical equipment, particularly X-Ray, MRI and CT Scanners, he traveled throughout New York State as well as North Carolina. He loved the intricacies of this position because his analytical mind was well-equipped to meet the challenges of maintaining these systems by troubleshooting their technical and logistical performance. He was the go-to man in his area of expertise. Philip’s positive personality allowed him to ponder the future in an optimistic way. He persevered in life’s adversities and was a man who overcame great odds. He connected to people with great ease and lived the by the motto of the ‘golden rule’. He was masterful at jokes, gestures, and expressive eye contact. He loved music and played the guitar sometimes for pleasure, and in his youth, in a band. He loved old time rock ’n roll. He kept current on news, preferred comedy, and enjoyed reading non-fiction science-based books. An adventurous man, he was always busy, whether working at his job indoors or at his house outdoors. He loved his home, and everyone was welcome and treated as family. Summer was his favorite season, a time for picnics, fishing, swimming, and get-togethers, especially the Boilermaker party. Then there was bowling, golfing, and assisting others in fixing anything that was broken - even relationships and matters of the heart. He also found a place in his compassionate soul to advocate for the humane treatment of animals. But above all else, he was a patriarch who expected his sons and daughter to embrace morals that would guide their way. To this end, he was a gentleman to his wife, which was the greatest lesson in love and life that he could ever bequeath his children. Philip was grateful that God graced him with the love of a woman who respected the lifestyle he sincerely wanted, children who made him so proud, and grandchildren who lighted the later years of his life and made the future bright. Philip is survived by his wife, Terumi “Terri”; his children and their loves, Philip J., Jr. and Ann Marie DeAngelo of Cassville, Michael A. and MaryJo DeAngelo of North Utica, and Melissa A. and Thomas Gaffney of Cassville; and his grandchildren, Philip Henry DeAngelo; Mia, Marlo, and Mikey DeAngelo; Meghan, Alexander (Plamondon), Alyson, and Mackenzie Gaffney. He will be remembered by his sisters and brothers-in-law, Jacquelyne and Ralph Campese, Sharon “Bunny” Evangelista, Deborah Platt, Sussie and Chuck Doris, and Joslyn “JoJo” Betz; his brother and sister-in-law, George and Carol DeAngelo; many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, cousins, several aunts, in-laws John and Joan Robinson, Katherine Robinson and husband Harvey Stein, and James Robinson. He was also blessed with wonderful and close friendships throughout his life. He was predeceased by his sister, Robyn Griffiths; and his in-laws, John and Yoko Robinson, and Elizabeth “Betty” and Randy Shires. The family extends thanks to Dr. Manzurul Sikder who provided good care and hope; the staffs of the Regional Cancer Center for their genuine support; Faxton-St. Luke’s Healthcare Center 6th Floor for their outstanding vigilance and compassion; St. Elizabeth Medical Center for providing professional and gentle concern; COVAC Transport for their kindness during Philip’s time of need; Hospice & Palliative Care, Inc. and the Abraham House for peacefully welcoming them into a comfortable, homelike setting, especially volunteer Lynn; and Philip’s sister Jackie who was faithful and devoted to him during his illness. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Philip’s funeral service and Celebration of Life which will commence on Saturday afternoon at 1:30 at St. Mark’s Church where his Memorial Mass of Resurrection will be offered by Rev. Mark Pasik. The family will receive visitors at the conclusion of Mass. Those wishing to express an act of kindness may make a contribution to the Abraham House or Hospice & Palliative Care, Inc. in lieu of flowers; envelopes will be available at the service. What though the radiance which was once so bright Be now for ever taken from my sight, Though nothing can bring back the hour Of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower; We will grieve not, rather find Strength in what remains behind... ~ William Wordsworth

Mr. Philip J. DeAngelo Sr.

August 18, 1948 - October 3, 2015