Mr. Milton Boddie, Sr.

UTICA - On Sunday, January 8, 2023, Mr. Milton Boddie, Sr., affectionately known as “Ish,” age 80, passed away in the comfort of his own home with his devoted family by his side. He is now at peace and with his maker. Milton was born on January 5, 1943 in Phenix City, AL to the late Felix Boddie and Mildred L. Burke; during his life he also knew the love of his second dad George E. Burke. The family later relocated to Utica and Milton graduated from Utica Free Academy in 1961. Following graduation, he enlisted in the U.S. Army and served in the Military Police overseas in Germany during the Vietnam War Era. On October 5, 1974, Milton wed the former Connie Woods. The two of them made a solemn vow to stay together until death do them part, and as a couple they honored this commitment to the very end. Milton first found employment in the family dry cleaning business on South Street his uncle Emmett Wilson owned as a delivery man. He later moved on to the Niagara Mohawk Power Company, now known as National Grid. Ever one to work his way up, he began as a meter reader and ended his career there as a supervisor. He was well respected, loved, and will be remembered by many. He also delivered papers for the Utica Observer-Dispatch and drove children with the Birnie Bus Company. Those kids appreciated Mr. Boddie's special demeanor! Coming from humble beginnings, Milton always counted his blessings. He was always punctual, never overstayed, and always left with his kangol cap on and a toothpick in his mouth. He was true to his word, regimented, and honest. But mostly he gained a reputation for being loving, caring, and genuine. He was a 33rd degree Mason Member (the highest degree in masonry) of the Masonic Hiram Lodge #18, he was both Past Master and Treasurer of St. Elizabeth and Chapter #15 (past Most Wise in house of Rose Croix), past Commander and Chief in Utica Consistory #45 and Noble in Allepo Temple #88. He was a member of Consistory 88 out of Syracuse, NY, as well as a faithful brother, he professed his belief in a supreme being and upheld the virtues of faith, hope, and charity. He also held affiliation with the 25-year retirement club of National Grid, a member of the Gas Lighters club. In both roles, he gained many friendships that he nurtured well over the years. Milton loved keeping up the appearances of his home, his cars - which were always filled with gas - and his lawn. He drew much enjoyment from taking walks on the parkway and sitting on his front porch. Ever meticulous, he began his day at 5 a.m. and knew exactly what he was going to eat and drink all day. He really was a good eater! He counted Guy Fieri as one of his mentors on “Diners, drive-ins, and dives” for home-style plates. As well, a good old western movie could keep his attention again and again. Milton was a beloved Sunday school teacher in his St. Paul's Baptist Church community, where he was a lifetime member. He loved teaching the children and passing on to them the values he learned and lived by from his own childhood, followed by attending services. A valued member of the community, he served as a trustee and loved being part of his church family. He took solace in knowing he was a child of the king. Milton is survived by his beloved and cherished wife, Connie; and their children and their spouses, Brian, Sr. and Debbie Boddie, Shannon Boddie, Milton Boddie, Jr.; and Marcus L. Boddie and Nadiyra Boddie. He will also be missed by his grandchildren, Samantha, Ryan, Karimah, Jada, Brian, Jr., Raven, and Brianna; Janatene, who spent much precious time with her papa, and who he affectionately called "Nurse Jana" by him; Siane, Marcus, Khalil, Sarai, and Daniel; and several great-grandchildren. Left to cherish his memory are his siblings and their spouses, Diane Clark, Marty and Debbie Boddie, Vanessa Boddie Shakir; Joseph and Hollis Howard, and Janice "Maria" Goodwin, aka "Red." He is also survived by a host of nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and cousins; his aunt, Deaconess Burke; his God sisters, Paula Workman, and Edwina Bowens; his God brother, Dale Garrett; his God children, Calvin Brown, Jr., Amanda Bennett, and Juan Wright; his father-in-law, James Brown; and sisters-in-law, Velma Woods, and Dale Hunt. His loss is also felt by his longtime friends, Mae Helen Evans, Carol Mitchell, Bridget Brown, Bobbie Dancy, Nate Price, John Bowens, Pearlene McLeod, and Peg Waterman. He now joins many wonderful friends whom he appreciated throughout his life but have gone before him. He was predeceased by his mother and stepfather Mildred L., and George Burke, his father Felix Bodie, mother-in-law, Dorthea Woods, The family wishes to extend their gratitude to Dr. Suderhan Dang, Dr. George Vates, Dr. Shafiq Ismat and the nurses, and staff at Strong Memorial Hospital. A special thanks also goes out to the staff of Hospice & Palliative Care, Inc., for providing support, assistance, and compassion. We also want to acknowledge Vornette Chastine, as she will always be a part of our family that we love as a daughter, sister and nurse while caring for our dad. She was amazing to Milton and has been especially wonderful to Connie in this difficult time – she is so loved by this family. The Bobby Murad family, Ali and Elvira Capra, and Sharon Davis were always the best neighbors and blessed friends, their kindnesses will be forever remembered. Pastor Marilyn Bell provided love, prayer, and calm, and uplifting moments which was of such comfort to the family – they hold her close to their hearts. Additional visits and support from Rev. J.L. Griffin and Rev. Alan Tucker were extremely appreciated. On Saturday, January 14, 2023 from 10:00–11:00 a.m. at St. Paul's Baptist Church, 219 Leah St., members of the Masonic Hiram Lodge #18 will provide ritualistic services for Milton. Visitation for family and friends will be held from 11:00 a.m.-12:30 p.m. at the church. Milton’s Home Going Service and Celebration of Life will commence at 12:30 p.m. with Military Honors conferred by the U.S. Army. Those unable to attend may be present for the services virtually on Zoom; Meeting ID: 835-638-95-256, Passcode: 179797. Interment will take place in Forest Hill Cemetery at the convenience at the convenience of the family.

Mr. Milton Boddie, Sr.

January 5, 1943 - January 8, 2023