Mrs. Lucretia M. (Sibilio) DeFuria

DEERFIELD – Lucretia M. “Cre” (Sibilio) DeFuria, age 91, went home to the Lord on Sunday, August 10, 2025. At the time of her passing, she was reunited with her beloved husband and daughter who were awaiting her. During the last years of her life, she was devotedly cared for by her two daughters, Lisa and Susan. Born in Utica on February 2, 1934, Lucretia was the daughter of the late Angelo and Rose (Pantaleo) Sibilio. She attended Brandegee Elementary School and was a graduate of T.R. Proctor High School/Class of 1952. On January 15, 1955, she joined in holy matrimony with Nicholas L. DeFuria. A strong and devoted couple, they cherished their vows above all else and served as a radiant example to their daughters of unwavering love, respect, and the true meaning of honoring one’s spouse. The couple were blessed with 61 loving years together before Nicholas passed away on May 4, 2016. At one time, Cre held employment as a receptionist at MVCC in their computer department, as well as at Casa Imports. She was a memorable woman who carried out both roles with the hospitality and a strong work ethic. The matriarch of her family, Cre considered her greatest accomplishment in life was having created a loving family and a stellar home. Selfless to a fault, she consistently put the needs of others before her own. Cre was a non-judgmental soul, and one never heard her speak ill of anyone; her caring mentality that was truly precious. She led by example—always advising, but more importantly showing, her daughters the importance of making thoughtful choices and living a life of integrity. Known for her stunning and classy apparel, she was admired by many for her impeccable taste. She always took care to present herself with elegance and poise. More than anything else, she was an unforgettable mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. The legacy she leaves to her family is one of impeccable love and devotion. At one time, Cre was an active member of the Schuyler Senior Center. She also possessed an artistic flair and took immense pride in crafting beautiful floral arrangements. A true stylist at heart, she always created a wonderful and cohesive aesthetic. A lifelong devout Catholic who deeply loved our Lord, she prayed daily to the Sacred Heart and the Blessed Mother. She faithfully attended Mass and when she could not, her daughter Susan, a Eucharistic minister, brought her communion which brought her great comfort. She practiced her faith as a member of Mary, Mother of Our Savior Parish, Lourdes Campus. Lucretia is survived by her truly devoted family: daughters and sons-in-law, Lisa and Alfred Rocci, and Susan and Thomas Luker. She held close to her heart the memory of her daughter, Karen DeFuria Marshall, who passed away on October 1, 2011. She is also remembered by her son-in-law, Don Marshall; grandchildren, Noahjon Marshall, Nicholas Marshall, Amanda and Dennis Harrington; Marissa Rocci-Armstrong and her husband David Armstrong, and Matthew Rocci; great-grandchildren, Alexander, and Nicholas Armstrong; and Calvin, and Nina Harrington. She cherished the memories of her sister and brother-in-law, Grace and Michael DiRisio, and her infant brother, Frank Sibilio, all who preceded her. Her loss is also felt by many nieces, especially Cathy Seminaro, who was extremely attentive to her Aunt Cre; nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews. Socially blessed, Cre maintained many close friendships throughout her life—relationships deeply woven into the fabric of her heart. It would be remiss not to mention Maime Mazzatti, whom she met shortly after marriage and with whom she shared many wonderful life experiences; these two truly knew each other’s hearts. Also, Theresa Antone, a friend since fifth grade, with whom she shared the rare bond of a common childhood and the journey of growing into maturity together. She was additionally predeceased by her father-in-law and mother-in-law, Louis and Cora (Coriale) DeFuria; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Anthony “Chic” and Anne DeFuria, Salvatore and Carolyn DeFuria, and Frances and Michael Valentino; niece, Rose Siringo; and nephews, Joseph DiRisio, and Anthony DiRisio. Gratitude is extended to the nurses of 8E at Wynn Hospital for their care and Compassion. A special thank you goes to Lucretia’s home caregivers, Mary and Annette, for their dedication to her needs, and to Janet, with whom she shared a very special bond. The family also sincerely thanks Lucretia’s primary care physician, Dr. William Ryan, who provided her with excellent care over several decades. She absolutely adored him and deeply appreciated how such a knowledgeable man took a genuine and remarkable interest in her wellbeing. The family remains forever grateful for Rev. Joseph Salerno and his spiritual guidance. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Lucretia’s Mass of Christian Burial and Celebration of Life, which will commence on Tuesday, August 19, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at Mary, Mother of Our Savior Parish, Lourdes Campus, 2222 Genesee St. There will be an opportunity to greet the family at the conclusion of Mass. In lieu of floral offerings, memorial contributions in Lucretia’s honor may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital online at www.stjude.org/donate or Boston Sight online at www.bostonsight.org/donate; envelopes will also be available at the service. Interment will take place in Calvary Cemetery. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave.

Mrs. Lucretia M. (Sibilio) DeFuria

February 2, 1934 - August 10, 2025