Eleanor J. (Pugliese) Scialdone

Mrs. Eleanor J. (Pugliese) Scialdone, of Utica, passed away on Monday, January 30, 2012 at the Faxton-St. Luke’s Healthcare Center. Although she had lived 90 fulfilling years of life, her passing was unexpected. Born in Witherbee, NY on March 2, 1921, Eleanor was the daughter of the late John and Virginia (Mazza) Pugliese. The family surname was also known as Ponessa. She was raised and educated in Witherbee. On November 16, 1941 she married Joseph John Scialdone with whom she shared 41 years until his passing on May 6, 1983; they shared a great closeness and were a truly happy couple. For many years, Eleanor worked as an associate at the F.W. Woolworth Store located on Mohawk Street. But it was her work as a wonderful mother which won her the honor and love of her children, and she fulfilled this precious role with much dedication. She welcomed her daughters-in-law with much love and respect. As a grandmother she was an outstanding role model; each of her grandchildren looked forward to spending time with her. To those extended family and friends who were fortunate enough to be embraced by her, she was affectionately known as "Grandma El." Blessed with a generous spirit, a compassionate heart, and a soft smile upon her face, she was the heart of the family and was happiest when she spent time with them. She was an outstanding cook with her own itinerary in preparing delicious dishes. Christmas celebrations were often hosted at her home, brimming with festivity and tradition. She kept the past alive, always supportive of the best and most challenging times of life. Her favorite present to receive was bingo lottery tickets which gave her the greatest thrills. Eleanor lived her spirituality daily, and for many years she practiced her faith at St. Agnes Parish. Eleanor is survived by her sons and daughters-in-law, Anthony Joseph “Tony” and Anne Marie Scialdone of New Hartford, and Joseph John “Joe”, Jr. and Dale Scialdone of Marcy; her grandchildren, Anthony Joseph II and Heather Scialdone, and Michael J. Scialdone; Joseph John Scialdone III, Christopher K. and Elizabeth Scialdone, and Gregory M. Scialdone; and her great-grandchildren, Dominic and Valentina. She also leaves her sisters, Lena Cifrian, and Jenny Rosselli, both of Witherbee, NY, and Betty Lane of Saratoga Springs; her brother and sister-in-law, Joseph and Betty Ponessa of Saratoga Springs; many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, cousins, and friend Anna LaNeve and her family who were special and longtime friends. She was predeceased by 8 siblings and spouses, and her in-laws. The family extends sincere appreciation to Dr. William Krause, Eleanor’s longtime physician and friend; Dr. Scott Brehaut for his compassionate nature; the nursing personnel of the Aspen and Birch wings at the Presbyterian Home for CNY for their loving support; and the staff of 3West, especially Kelly Backer, R.N., at the Faxton-St. Luke’s Healthcare Center for their expertise. Eleanor’s family has honored and commemorated her life at a private time. Those wishing to express an act of kindness in lieu of flowers may make a donation to the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave.

Eleanor J. (Pugliese) Scialdone

March 2, 1921 - January 30, 2012