Mrs. Carmelita (DeRosa) Graniero

Mrs. Carmelita “Carm” (DeRosa) Graniero, age 81, of New Hartford, passed into the hands of the Lord on Thanksgiving Day, Thursday, November 22, 2012 in the comfort of her home with her loving family by her side. Born in Utica on December 22, 1930, Carmelita was the daughter of the late Edward and Ann (Milozzo) DeRosa. She was a graduate of T.R. Proctor High School Class of 1948. On May 16, 1953 she married Richard J. “Dick” Graniero with whom she shared a union of nearly 60 years. Carm was dedicated to her husband and his well-being, and was so much in love that she often expressed her admiration for him. In her younger years, Carm worked with Dr. Gerald Natiella, DDS in her vocation as a Dental Assistant. She then took time to raise her children and dedicate herself to nurturing her family. She was wise and understanding in her parental guidance, and she inspired her children to be fair-minded, well-mannered, and non-judgmental. Her sons and daughters admired all that she did for them in shaping their lives. She was honored and embraced by her loved ones, and they opened their hearts to her. She valued each moment of their development at their own pace. In retrospect, the greatest fulfillment of her life was the realization of her children and family, and her ability to have mastered a unique relationship with each of them. She rejoiced in the success of her children and grandchildren, and in the end, each of them will have a piece of her heart forever because she planned it that way. It was a precious lesson that she learned as she journeyed through life. At one time, she assisted her husband in the operation of Richard’s Restaurant located on Route 49 in Marcy specializing in Italian food, and possessed a family atmosphere and was a place that each family member held responsibility. It was well-noted and recognized that Carm was a living example of class, grace, and eloquence especially in the style in which she presented herself. A responsible soul, she was supportive and encouraging in a gentle way. During the summer, their camp at White Lake was a haven for three families “plus”, a place that gave rise to some of her most memorable times. In 1984, Carm and Dick moved to Kayuta Lake for the serenity of the area. She was very particular in the presentation of her home and the articulated arrangements and adornments within. She was also an excellent entertainer and a spectacular cook and baker. She was endowed with an all-encompassing creative nature, and “Martha had nothing on her”. After a busy day, she enjoyed the evening ritual of tipping a martini with Dick. She was an antique aficionado throughout the years and partnered with her daughters in proudly establishing the “Black Crow Antiques” shop at their home in the midst of perfectly manicured floral and herb gardens. Her leisurely interests included playing mahjong at the Jewish Community Center which was her most recent pastime. She was an avid reader and re-reader of classic works of literature, and appreciated orchestral and jazz music among other genres. A romantic at heart, she had a fondness for classic movies of the golden age of cinema which were laced with moving narratives and intertwined plots. She also kept numerous journals throughout the years. Carm trusted in her God and believed that her faith directed her life. She was a communicant of St. Mary of Mt. Carmel/Blessed Sacrament Parish. Carm is survived by her husband, Dick; her adored children and their families, Janice R. and Richard Santillo of NC, Dr. Richard A. and Jenny (Stevens) Graniero of CT, Gina Graniero of Utica, and Christopher and Margaret (Geraci) Graniero of Marcy; her beloved and cherished grandchildren, Sarah, and Richard Santillo; Emily, and Matthew Graniero; and Cristiana, and Angelyna Graniero. Also left to mourn her passing are her sister and brother-in-law, Regina and John Aliasso of Utica; many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, cousins, and in-laws Walter Lorenz, and Lee Graniero. Carm was also blessed with many loyal and lifelong friends as well as many new friends who have been attentive to the very end. She was predeceased by her sister, Vida Ann Lorenz; her brother-in-law, Michael Graniero; and several special aunts and uncles. The family extends heartfelt gratitude to her primary healthcare providers, Sally O’Callahan, Nurse Practitioner, and Dr. Joseph Choma and the staff at St. Peter’s Hospital, Albany, NY, for their sincere comfort and professionalism; the personnel of Hospice & Palliative Care, especially Mary, for their knowledge and assistance in caring for Carm and giving her the strength to endure her battle. They are also most grateful to family and friends who expressed an outpouring of support that was incredibly heartfelt. Visitation will be held on Sunday from 2-5 at the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave. Expressions of sympathy in the form of donations may be made to Hospice & Palliative Care, Inc. in lieu of floral offerings; envelopes will be available at the funeral home. Carmelita’s funeral service and Celebration of Life will commence on Monday morning at 11:00 from the funeral home and at 12:00 noon at St. Mary of Mt. Carmel/Blessed Sacrament Parish where her Mass of Christian Burial will be offered by Rev. James Cesta. Interment will take place in Calvary Cemetery at the convenience of the family.

Mrs. Carmelita (DeRosa) Graniero

December 22, 1930 - November 22, 2012