Mr. Bernard T. "Bernie" Uebelhoer

Mr. Bernard T. “Bernie” Uebelhoer, age 65, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, February 24, 2015 at the St. Elizabeth Medical Center with his wife by his side. Born in Batavia, NY on February 23, 1950, Bernard was the son of the late Robert J. and Mary (Reynders) Uebelhoer. He attended St. Mary’s High School in Lancaster, NY and continued his education at Fordham University in Bronx, NY where he received a Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications. He pursued his post-graduate studies at Syracuse University earning a Master of Arts degree in TV-Film and a Master of Fine Arts degree in Film Studies. Bernie married his first and only love, Gail Nackley, on her birthday, September 16, 1972; they were like-minded and kindred souls, simpatico in every respect. During their 42 year union, he was devoted to her in every respect. Bernie’s career as a self-employed Multimedia Producer and Graphic Artist spanned 35 years. His professional portfolio was prolific, reflecting his love for the creative process. He was a deep thinker with a keen artistic eye for detail, and was highly respected in his field. Bernie was blessed to have his son Luke who was so devoted and enamored of him. He grew up knowing his father’s acceptance and support. That devotion was mutual and was transferred over to his granddaughter, Alice, whom he lovingly labeled “my little ginger snap”. He also shared a special bond with his daughter-in-law Ruth and considered her as his own daughter. Bernie was a master carpenter, and with his creative eye and technical mind, he could build or fix anything. Bernie loved the game of tennis, a sport he shared with his wife for many years. As a certified USTA/ITA tennis official and referee, he garnered respect for his fair-minded calls, and knowledge of the game. Bernie also coached Little League baseball when his son was young. He was an insightful mentor who underscored the fundamentals and conveyed the ‘love of the game’ and sportsmanship to his team, earning the moniker given him by his son’s friends --- “Papa Ebo”. He was also a master of sports and movie trivia, and all trivial information, completing the New York Times and the New Yorker crossword puzzles, only in pen! Bernie was also a storyteller who could relate a narrative in such detail that it brought the listener back in time with perfect recollection. He was a faithful parishioner of Our Lady of the Rosary Roman Catholic Church where he attended daily Mass with Gail and found solace in his faith. Bernie is survived by his wife and best friend, Gail; his son, Dr. Luke S. Uebelhoer and his wife Dr. Ruth J. Napier of Portland, Oregon; and his most precious granddaughter, Alice Clara Uebelhoer. He also leaves his sisters and brothers-in-law, Joanne and Roger Mueller, twin sisters and their spouses, Mary and Walter Czechowski, Margaret and Jack Ryan; Melissa and Aaron Machelski, twin sisters and their spouses, Barbara and Richard Pieper, and Brenda and Nicholas Langdon; and his brother and sister-in-law, James and Cherie Uebelhoer. His extended family includes numerous beloved nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, cousins, and seven godchildren who loved their “Uncle B”. Bernie also knew the love of his mother-in-law, Isabel Nackley; and his in-laws, Mary and Dominick DeAngelo, Sandra and Mark Barr, Elizabeth Nackley and Susan Russell, Susan and Mark Mojave, Dr. James J. Nackley II and Dr. Anna Nackley, and Victoria Nackley. He was also blessed with many meaningful friendships throughout the years. He was predeceased by his sister and brother-in-law, Charlene and Paul Peterson; his brother, Robert Uebelhoer; nephew, Robbie Langdon; father-in-law, James J. Nackley; and brother-in-law, Michael J. Nackley. The family wishes to thank the nurses and staff of the St. Elizabeth Medical Center 3rd Floor and Intensive Care Unit, especially Sheila, who showed compassion and was an advocate for the family’s needs which was so appreciated. Visitation will be held on Sunday afternoon from 2:00-6:00 at the Eannace Funeral Home, Inc., 932 South St., corner of Hammond Ave. The family will remain until all visitors have been received. Expressions of sympathy in the form of donations may be made to MWPAI in lieu of flowers; envelopes will also be available at the funeral home. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend Bernard’s funeral service and Celebration of Life which will commence on Monday morning at 10:30 at Our Lady of the Rosary Church, 1736 Burrstone Road, New Hartford, NY 13413, where his Mass of Christian Burial will be offered by Rev. Tom Honold.

Mr. Bernard T. "Bernie" Uebelhoer

February 23, 1950 - February 24, 2015